Getting into the gym can be a scary thing. There are so many weights/machines and information that you need to know to obtain maximum progress. While you may be wishing that you had a good video to start, allow me to help!
In this podcast, we interview Alex Wright, a Physical Activities Counselor for the UConn Health and Wellness center. Alex is certified in:
- Certified Exercise Physiologist through the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM)
- Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist through the National Strength and Conditioning Association (NSCA)

Alex and I go into the basics of working out and some tips that may help keep you motivated and on track to that main goal.
We also hear from someone who works out every day, as they share their own experiences in the gym and the challenges they faced in their fitness journey. You are not alone in this journey and I hope you enjoy!
TRANSCRIPT:
Jackson Bufmack
How’s it going? Everybody? My name is your host, Jackson, and welcome to better yourself. So better yourself is a podcast where me as a host will be going around talking to different people, just, you know, learning about how to better yourself in the gym and how to work out properly with me today. I do have Alex, right, if you just want to say hi,
Alex Wright
yeah, hello. So I’m Alex. I’m a doctoral student in the kinesi Kinesiology Department here at the University of Connecticut, and I am also a physical activity counselor in student health and wellness. And yeah, thanks for having me, of course,
Jackson Bufmack
of course. At first, I just want to thank you for taking some time out of your day to actually come meet with me. And yeah, me being somebody who does work out, I know what it’s like first getting into the gym. It is very scary just walking in there, seeing all these weights, all these machines, not really knowing what to hit, what to do. You know the correct workout split correct like, rest off days even, like, the diet part is a little bit hard, but we’re not going to go crazy into that. But um, yeah, if you just wanted to give a little background about, like, how long you’ve been working out, like you’re kind of your school background, like, where you’re from, stuff like that. Why you started working out?
Alex Wright
Yeah, absolutely. So I’ll first, I’ll say that I’ve been a tennis player since I was eight years old. And as an athlete, of course, you’re going to be going through different kinds of workouts. And so technically, I’m 28 years old now. So it’s been about 20 years since I started working out. If you’re talking about actually doing some kind of training in the gym, it’s been since the age of about 19 or 20. And so my undergrad school had a gym that I just started working out. And so, yeah, really, in terms of lifting, it’s been about eight years or so, yeah.
Jackson Bufmack
oh, nice, nice. So, um, what do you think is like the most important aspect of working out?
Alex Wright
Yeah, so I think a key variable, if you were to get something right, it would actually be consistency. And what I mean by that is you, first, you have some kind of routine that you’re following, and secondly, you follow that routine. It doesn’t have to be the same one for, say, like eight weeks, but you follow some kind of training programs and be consistent with following them. Because you what you see a lot of the time is that people fall off whatever kind of exercise between that they’re doing, and really, what we’re trying to think about is just being consistent for the long term as part of a lifestyle, because for health benefits, for your fitness improvements, what’s really going to matter the most is how consistent you are. And so if there was one variable, I would say you should get right, it’s definitely the consistency aspect.
Jackson Bufmack
Awesome. Awesome. I’m actually really happy you said that, because I really did just think of this question right here. So when it does come with consistency, for me personally, I started working out at around, like, 17 years old, and the whole to see growth, you need, like, a whole nother part on the diet part for me, the part for me to stay, like, kind of like motivated and stuff like that is after that, like one month, two month period where I was seeing all this growth, I kind of plateaued, didn’t see any growth. And I’m definitely a victim of, like, being like, Oh, I’m not seeing anything. And then I stopped working out for a couple of months. Then I got back into it, and now I’m fully back into it. So what do you kind of have to say for those people who kind of, like, lose the motivation those first couple of weeks? Because the first couple of weeks are probably where you see like, the most progress, just because, like, your body starts to shape up stuff like that. So if you had, like, any advice for them to, like, kind of stay motivated, what would it be?
Alex Wright
Yeah, so I think something that you should really do is actually track the weight that you’re lifting. And I think that can be motivating, because, as you said, when you’re first starting in the gym, you’re going to be making the fastest games of your life. And so for me personally, what I experienced was that that served as a motivator for me to get to the gym. And so I’m like, Well, if I missed today’s session, then I’m probably not going to add five pounds to my bench press. And I’m not saying you have to be hyper focused on numbers, but I think those who are beginning in the gym, if you can actually just somehow keep track of what you’re actually doing, rather than just going off your memory, just if you do have some kind. Of goal that you’re working towards. I think that can be a big help for being consistent in those first few stages.
Jackson Bufmack
And yeah, what’s like a key element to, like, a high workout routine? So like, it could be like a split, it could be like, kind of just like supplements or something you take.
Alex Wright
So I’ll first say that I think you need to think about what goals you have and what you’re trying to achieve from being in the gym. So of course, there’s plenty of health fitness goals you can think about. Some people are trying to improve their muscular strength. Some people it’s muscle size. Other people might be more focused on their cardio or cardio respiratory fitness. And so really got to think about manipulating those training variables to suit the goal you’re trying to achieve. And so, for example, if someone is training for to increase muscle size, then there’s a few things they should think about. So firstly, they should be doing some degree of weight training or resistance training, moving the muscle through a dynamic range of motion against a resistance that’s going to be needed in order to actually drive some kind of stimulus for the body to adapt and grow. And there’s a few more things they would think about, for example, based on the evidence, we know that their sets need to be pretty hard, and I’m not saying it has to be training until failure, meaning, if you do a given set, you go until you can’t do any more. It doesn’t have to be that hard, but you should probably at least leave less than three reps in reserve, based on the evidence. And again, another thing to think about is how much volume you’re doing. So what we know is that the more volume, in terms of how many sets per muscle per week, probably the more growth you’re going to get, there is a dose response relationship. And another thing I will mention is exercise technique is probably going to be important for most goals that you have. So in terms of the when you’re lifting, you know there’s a concentric portion of the lift where the muscle is contracting, and then there’s an eccentric portion when the muscle was lengthening. And so it’s probably a good idea to actually do most of the range of motion, and you should control all parts of that lift. So on the eccentric, you’re not just, if you’re doing a bicep curl, you’re not just dropping the weight, you’re actually controlling it on the way down, because that eccentric component does matter.
Jackson Bufmack
So I want to thank you again for your time, Alex, you offered a lot of good advice, and overall, just help for beginners, for the gym, and I think that it will help them out in the future. So thank you. You’re welcome.
Jackson Bufmack
All right. So here I am with Jason Erb, So Jason, do you want to tell me when and why you started working out?
Jason Erb
Well, I started working out a few years ago. I think it was around october 2021 during the COVID times, I mainly started working out just because I didn’t like my image. I was overweight. Struggled with that for most of my life, and working out has really done a lot for me since then.
Jackson Bufmack
Awesome, awesome. So what were some of the ways you kind of stayed motivated during your fitness journey? And why did you why did you always kind of, you know, stay on, like, track, going to the gym.
Jason Erb
Well, I mean, the main thing was letting it go too far. I really found a love for the gym. And when I was overweight, I didn’t really want to go back to that kind of lifestyle, being sad all the time, not wanting to do anything. Troubles with my confidence, self esteem, just like staying consistent has been the biggest thing for me.
Jackson Bufmack
So would you say that it definitely has helped you out a lot, like mentally, too, instead of just a physical aspect,
Jason Erb
for sure, mentally and physically, it does wonders when you work out, when you’re on a consistent regimen, going to the gym every day, even if you’re just going for 30 minutes, anything is better than nothing. Awesome,
Jackson Bufmack
awesome. And then just finally. Do you have any advice for somebody who’s trying to get into working out?
Jason Erb
I’d say to people really find a love for the gym. Find something that you like going there and doing, whether whatever it is, lifting weights, doing cardio, the love for the gym has brought me such a increase in self confidence and self esteem, I feel so much better about my body and it’s done one news for my mental health, awesome. Thank you, Jason. Of course, Man.
Jackson Bufmack
Alex and Jason gave some great responses, and I honestly hope that this information can help you guys in the future with working out. But other than that, I hope you guys get started and good luck on your journey.
SOURCES
https://studenthealth.uconn.edu/person/alex-wright/
https://www.rxresource.org/fitness/exercise-and-fitness-facts-and-statistics.html
https://freemusicarchive.org/static
https://freesound.org/browse/